Relationships change as life changes, and it's good to pay attention to these changes so relationships don't suffer. There are many life circumstances that create relationship changes. Some of those circumstances include the addition of new family members via birth, marriage, adoption, and more. Other circumstances include new homes, new jobs, and health/care issues. If a relationship really matters to you, it's important to identify what's impacting change, and then figure out how you're going to continue to nurture the relationship in ways possible.
Recently I encountered a relationship change when a loved one's schedule changed. My loved one used to have a lot more free time to talk, share ideas/insights, and get together, but due to multiple life choices and circumstances, that friend is less available now. I miss our old friendship, but I understand that the changes are a natural part of life. So now it's a time to rework the relationship in positive ways. How can I make time for my friend in ways that fit her new schedule? What do we enjoy together? How will this work? These are questions I'll consider in the days ahead.
Similarly I've encountered changing relationships with my children as they live their adult lives. My husband and I have made many choices to acknowledge this change and keep the relationships strong. For example, we plan ahead to visit faraway children regularly in order to have the intimate times we enjoy with our children. We also try to celebrate special occasions together.
Relationships will change, and sensitivity to these changes can help to keep relationships positive. Onward.
