The world we live in moves quickly and thanks, in part, to the Internet, we can be in touch with countless friends and relatives at all times. Yet, we have limited time, resources, and energy, so knowing where your friends and relatives are at in life can be helpful with respect to nurturing good relationships and being there for your friends and relatives when they need or want you.
In this time of seemingly limitless connection, what do we need to be aware of?
Struggle, sadness, need
At times, our friends and relatives have substantial struggle, sadness, and need. If we can offer solace of any kind, this needs to be a priority. It's good to consider the welfare of those you love and care for regularly so you are able to be there for them if you can.
Busy lives
Many of our friends and relatives are likely engaged in a large array of activities and expectations. Simply providing them the time they need to do what they have to and want to can be gift. Our own self reliance and responsibility for our welfare actually frees our loved ones up to do what they need to and want to as well. We have to be considerate of the busy lives people lead.
Good times
Everyone likes a good time, and what constitutes a good time for people differs substantially. It's great to match what you define as a good time with those that share your enthusiasm for specific activities. Some friends may enjoy a lunch out while others would prefer a hike in the woods. Some like to travel while others prefer to attend a performance of some kind. Our friends and relatives, like our interests, will differ and when we can match up our interests with their's, we're likely to have a shared good time.
Style
Our friends and relatives will have different styles. Being cognizant of their styles helps us to be sensitive to their needs and interests. This sensitivity definitely helps to strengthen relationships.
Our friends and relatives like a beautiful array of textures and colors in an art studio will differ quite a bit, and their differences make our lives more interesting and wonderful if we attend to this wonderful array of personality, interests, desires and need. Onward.
