Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Be the friend you desire

 We all desire good friends and what defines a good friend will change somewhat from person to person. As I think of this today, I can summarize this with the statement, Be the friend you desire. In other words, exhibit the behaviors towards friends that you desire in a friend. I thought a bit about this today and here's what I've come up with so far. 

Listen

Attentive listening is a quality of a good friend. 

Helpful

Good friends are helpful when help is needed.

Forgiving

Good friends know that we all make mistakes and good friends are forgiving.

Fun

Good friends enjoy having fun together.

Trusting

Good friends trust one another. 

Loving

Good friends are loving.

Keep expectations reasonable

Be Honest

I'll return to this list soon to add more qualities. 

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