We rely on our relationships in many ways as we strive to live good lives. The best relationships are reciprocal where both parties give and take at about the same rates. Of course there will be times when one takes or gives more dependent on circumstances, but all in all, good relationships tend to even out over time.
Sometimes we can fall into relationship traps where a friend or relative takes far more than they give. We may not even realize this at first, but then over time when there are few to no invitations, supportive words, or kind actions, it becomes apparent that the relationship is waning, and it's time to move on. Of course, I don't like to finalize any relationship if possible. Instead I believe it's better to take breaks now and then and/or redefine the relationship.
When redefining a relationship, it's good to think about what really works for that relationship and what doesn't work. It's also good to think about what you can bring to that relationship and what you are unable to bring. And of course, it's helpful to put yourself in the shoes of the other person to understand what they need, desire, and enjoy. Knowing that helps you to be a better friend and enjoy a better friendship.
Onward.
