There are times in life when we have to say goodbye, and those times are typically sentimental, meaningful times.
I remember saying goodbye to my brother. It was some time before his death, but it was an intimate exchange that demonstrated our respect and love for one another. I felt a lot of peace after that moment and when his death came, I was at peace and able to support those around me. Saying goodbye to my mom was a multi-day affair filled with kind words, beautiful music, hand-holding and prayer. And now, in many ways, I am saying goodbye to another loved one--a loved one who is not physically leaving us now, but who is drifting away in many ways. I want to make sure that our more seldom moments together are meaningful, warm and loving.
I'm always aware that our moments together could be our last--I suppose I'm aware of that since I value the deep connections I share with many and know that these deep and loving connections are precious and can change in a moment's notice. I want to be as present, loving, positive and kind in my moments with loved ones and others as I can be--I don't want regrets and I do want to do what I can for and with others.
Onward.
