One of the most moving Thanksgiving-time dinners I experienced occurred about fifteen years ago. My father-in-law had died that year and my mother-in-law and others were facing some grave illnesses. My dad gave the toast, and during the toast he acknowledged the loss and challenges in our midst. He also acknowledged the good that so many people at the table had brought to life. His acknowledgement brought smiles and warmth to the table that day--it was a bittersweet, loving moment of family closeness. The meal and camaraderie was all the better after that that.
Despite the many challenges people face, we can't forget to bring the joy to the holidays. We have to acknowledge the blessings and people we enjoy. I want to think about that as I prepare for the festivities ahead. Onward.
